What MommyMidwife didn’t mention is that the Quiverfull way is more than choosing to reject birth control and having as many children “as the Lord blesses” a couple with. It’s a patriarchal lifestyle of seclusion from modern society. The husband/father is the prime authority figure and the wife/mother/daughters must submit to his authority. They homeschool practically universally, for religious reasons, and usually birth at home. The father is typically self-employed, running a family business, and homesteading or living off the land is not uncommon especially if the family lives in a rural area. College education seems to be looked down upon, especially for the daughters. Daughters are expected to be married off soon after the completion of their basic education by a young “Godly” man who “asks her hand” in marriage and has the approval of her father. The females dress “modestly” which means no pants or shorts but long dresses or skirts, and they keep their hair long. A lot of these families do home church as well, probably because they have trouble fitting in a modern congregation, even if it’s Evangelical. Those that do attend a church seem to be of the Fundamentalist persuasion, though there are Quiverfull adherents that hail from across the board of Christianity. It is a backlash against feminism towards the other extreme, and seems like a lifestyle that is at odds with, and deliberately so, the “seven mountains” of (modern) culture: arts and entertainment, business, education, family, government, media, and religion.

Pioneers of the movement are authors Mary Pride (The Way Home: Beyond Feminism, Back to Reality), Nancy Campbell of the Above Rubies ministry (Be Fruitful and Multiply), and Rick and Jan Hess (A Full Quiver: Family Planning and the Lordship of Christ). Website resources for the movement are Above Rubies and David and Suzanne Bortel’s Quiverfull. If you read the articles on the Articles page and look at the offerings in the Books and Resources page of the Quiverfull site you’ll gain a good understanding of what the Quiverfull movement is about.

Of course the most well-known Quiverfull family is the Duggar family of Discovery Channel/TLC fame.

I’m really perplexed by the very Old-Testament-style legalism of this movement and its twisting of Scripture to justify its purpose. Yes, children are a blessing from the Lord, but they’re also a tremendous responsibility. The New Testament also teaches the virtues of not marrying (and hence not having children) for the sake of the Kingdom of God – as one can totally devote himself or herself to the Lord’s work. Some will be called to a life of celibacy. Jesus said in Matthew 19:12 (NKJV):

For there are eunuchs who were born thus from their mother’s womb, and there are eunuchs who were made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the kingdom of heaven’s sake. He who is able to accept it, let him accept it.

Here’s what 1 Corinthians 7 has to say (NLT):

1 Now regarding the questions you asked in your letter. Yes, it is good to live a celibate life. 2 But because there is so much sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman should have her own husband.

3 The husband should fulfill his wife’s sexual needs, and the wife should fulfill her husband’s needs. 4 The wife gives authority over her body to her husband, and the husband gives authority over his body to his wife.

5 Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6 I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7 But I wish everyone were single, just as I am. But God gives to some the gift of marriage, and to others the gift of singleness.

8 So I say to those who aren’t married and to widows—it’s better to stay unmarried, just as I am. 9 But if they can’t control themselves, they should go ahead and marry. It’s better to marry than to burn with lust.

and…

25 Now regarding your question about the young women who are not yet married. I do not have a command from the Lord for them. But the Lord in his mercy has given me wisdom that can be trusted, and I will share it with you. 26 Because of the present crisis, I think it is best to remain as you are. 27 If you have a wife, do not seek to end the marriage. If you do not have a wife, do not seek to get married. 28 But if you do get married, it is not a sin. And if a young woman gets married, it is not a sin. However, those who get married at this time will have troubles, and I am trying to spare you those problems.

29 But let me say this, dear brothers and sisters: The time that remains is very short. So from now on, those with wives should not focus only on their marriage. 30 Those who weep or who rejoice or who buy things should not be absorbed by their weeping or their joy or their possessions. 31 Those who use the things of the world should not become attached to them. For this world as we know it will soon pass away.

32 I want you to be free from the concerns of this life. An unmarried man can spend his time doing the Lord’s work and thinking how to please him. 33 But a married man has to think about his earthly responsibilities and how to please his wife. 34 His interests are divided. In the same way, a woman who is no longer married or has never been married can be devoted to the Lord and holy in body and in spirit. But a married woman has to think about her earthly responsibilities and how to please her husband. 35 I am saying this for your benefit, not to place restrictions on you. I want you to do whatever will help you serve the Lord best, with as few distractions as possible.

36 But if a man thinks that he’s treating his fiancée improperly and will inevitably give in to his passion, let him marry her as he wishes. It is not a sin. 37 But if he has decided firmly not to marry and there is no urgency and he can control his passion, he does well not to marry. 38 So the person who marries his fiancée does well, and the person who doesn’t marry does even better.

39 A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. If her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but only if he loves the Lord. 40 But in my opinion it would be better for her to stay single, and I think I am giving you counsel from God’s Spirit when I say this.

I’m going to blog on this some more, but one post is too long so stay tuned. I’m going to address more of the Quiverfull movement’s sectarianism (some might call it cultishness), unbalanced views of patriarchy and female submissiveness, a strange take on growing the Kingdom of God and hints of racism, whether intended or not.

Here’s a news video by the Pilot Online (Hamptonroads.tv):

Here’s the article the Pilot wrote:
Hundreds gather in Hampton Roads for tax-day protest

Now I want to share my pictures. I hope I’ve captured the overall spirit and attitude of the gathering, as well as given a glimpse into the purpose and intent of the Tea Party movement.

Home-schoolers happy to grow and learn together

The Virginian-Pilot
© April 1, 2009

By AnnaLisa Michalski

Correspondent

SUFFOLK

In the past, home-schoolers generally were of two opposite groups: those who wanted a strictly religious curriculum, or those who valued liberal, commune-style schooling. Today’s home-school population is much broader than those extremes.

For Gary and Gail Barker, the home-school journey began when their oldest son was diagnosed with a mild learning and speech disability. But the limited services available in their small, rural town were inappropriate for his needs. They decided to teach him themselves and never looked back.

Now living in Suffolk, the Barkers continue to home-school all four of their sons, ages nine to 18.

Special needs influenced Mollie Baker’s family also. Mollie was already a home-school mom when her seventh and youngest child reached school age.

Because he has cerebral palsy, Mollie enrolled her son in Northern Shores Elementary School’s special education program. The school was excellent, but Mollie was thoroughly exhausted by the classroom and bus schedule after a year and a half.

“We really needed more flexibility,” she says. The solution? Add special education to her home-school repertoire. Flexibility is one of the hallmarks of home schooling. Students learn at various times of the day and year rather than being bound by schedules. Continuity is a major draw as well.

For military families who may need to move in the middle of a school year, home schooling is appealing. That’s what motivated Mary Ellen Bebermeyer’s family to home-school. Despite not having been relocated in seven years, Mary Ellen says, “we have no incentive to stop home schooling now.”

Home-school programs vary from the fluid to the heavily structured. One structured model is Virtual Public Schools. This program allows motivated students to learn at home while taking full advantage of public school resources including instructors and materials. This arrangement gave Adriana Fuentes, 12, of Harbor View uninterrupted learning when her family moved here from Florida.

Virginia is one of 25 states that offers the program. “It works great,” saidAdriana’s mother, Sharon Fuentes. “I wish more people knew about it.” (Learn more at www.k12.com.)

Despite doing much of their learning privately, home-schooled families are not isolated. Most make a point of interacting through places of worship, Scouting and community league sports.

Other group programs are designed by and for home-schooling families. Locally, Renaissance School for the Arts meets at Ebenezer United Methodist Church in Eclipse to offer theater, dance, music and visual arts.

Co-founder and home-school mom Norma Andes explains the healthy socialization offered by the program: “Children are not separated by age. You’ll see bigger kids helping the younger ones. They play together and forget to keep score.” She says there are other social advantages as well. “No one really cares about brand-name clothes.”

Gary Barker agrees. Home-schooled kids, he says, have “an openness, an innocence. Not like the hardness you sometimes get with public schooling.”

And most importantly, he says, they learn well, too. “Our youngest son was the fastest to learn reading because his brothers helped.”

AnnaLisa Michalski, churchland-corner@adminmaven.com

The article is at http://hamptonroads.com/2009/03/homeschoolers-happy-grow-and-learn-together

UPDATE: There was no homeschooling segment on the show today.  The AIG exec scandal predominated the hour, probably because the CEO is on the hotseat before Congress right now as I type. If I find the homeschooling segment is rescheduled I’ll post it here.